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A good rule of thumb: if you aren’t available for a date within 7 days of sending the message, don’t send it.NOT-SO-SMOOTH OPERATOR The scenario: “I recently received a message that said, ‘Damn you’re a pretty white girl, you into muscular black men? Even if any of it’s true you’ll sound like a try-hard-preneur. Fine, but don’t go on about how you’re a genius entrepreneur and about to buy your first Lamborghini. Showing initiative is fine, but remember – you’re two people on a date – neither of you should be making every decision about where to go or what to do. No one wants to hear about the fun times you had with them or how they broke your heart. Don’t talk about your ex, whether it’s in a good way or bad.
All I know is I think you should explore what it is you want.' It did three things: asserted a standard, showed kindness, and introduced the fear that she may not be there.
’” — Kristen, 27 The problem..the solution: Aside from the obvious inappropriate nature of the comment to a complete stranger, men should never mention their physical characteristics or their own body parts in an introductory message.
Women are easily scared away online, so you should avoid saying anything remotely controversial or predatory.
Don’t obsess over that weird nerve-induced thing you blurted out (e.g.
Sloooow down there, buddy – no matter how into this person you are, don’t go changing your Facebook relationship status just yet!