Dating right after a breakup
If someone just broke up with you is a good idea to just start dating right away.
If you just stay home and feel miserable, you’re just going to make things worse.
Do not date unless you're really ready to put your past relationship in the past.
You dont want to bring baggage from your broken heart into a brand new relationship, and no one likes to be a rebound.
Every minute your phone doesn't light up with his name, or every time you look at his social media, it makes you want to jump on the next guy who even glances your way to fill this void.
Instead of succumbing to this behavior, which is purely to fill the void, you should…Take your time.
Worst, because even when you feel like you’ve done all of the necessary work to move on, For me, the first date after a breakup always felt as though someone had taken a giant highlighter and highlighted everything that was missing; everything that I would never have again.
It highlighted The familiarity, the passion, and the comfort of my previous relationship was dead and gone. everything was just this awkward struggle that was far from fun or effortless.
Best, because if you’ve done the work needed to move on from your breakup, it means that you’re on your way to a much more successful dating life.
Even if the new guy was seemingly perfect, it still wasn’t It just wasn’t the same. I’m so glad that you liked the post :)) I totally understand how you feel and what you mean.
All of your old emotions, emotions that you THOUGHT you dealt with, get reignited and you feel even more confused and crazy. You’re doing the right thing by taking your time, feeling your feelings and going at your own pace.
You feel like one of those newborn giraffes that can’t walk a foot before falling down when just a few shorts months ago, you were prancing all around like it was nothing. You have no idea how many times people have told me and still do, to get over him and move on, to start dating again already, to go on online dating websites and the best way to get over someone is getting under someone else ???????? You take all the time you need and the only person that you need to listen to regarding dating again is yourself. Thank you again for your support and love and for reading.
It’s hard to date again, to trust again and to have a serious case of Male syndrome. I know it’s over and no more future with him anymore but I’m not like other girls that do all this things people want me to do. You are so sweet 🙂 xxox Paola you are not alone in that regard.
waiting a beat instead of immediately jumping into a rebound relationship.